Update. Last night and this morning, I took my balls down from her jar and put them where they are supposed to be. I have taken a 180 from my recent state. This morning, although not confrontational, I did take off my wedding ring (she took off hers before Labor Day), she noticed it but didn't say anything, I could tell she was bothered though. She left for the afternoon in her usual "get away" with a girlfriend and I just barely said good bye, unlike my normal watch her off.
