Here is my quandry - He doesn't know I filed for child support because quite frankly my state is slow when it comes to these things... I can't get over the feeling that once he is served these papers, it may do him in...
Serenity, I sincerely doubt this will be the case. You're his W, call the Hospital , find out the name of his cardiologist and ask him his opinion. If something like that would be able to do him in, the Doctors wouldn't release him and would keep him in hosp.
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That is some guilt I couldn't live with however I don't want to tell him either... I don't want to add to his "stress"
Life is stress.
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however if I withdraw the papers then isn't that basically giving him license to continue without any reprocussions?
Yep.
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Is he going to play the "sick" card anytime something comes up he doesn't want to deal with
Yep. Especialy if you let him get away with it this time.
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and if so how can I get around that to continue to protect myself and my sons?
You don't. Let him and his doctors worry about that. Only priority: Protect Serenity. Protect sons.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Has he done the same for you? He has added stress to both of your lives. You are just asking the state to enforce his responsibility to the family. I do not know the nature of his condition, but I doubt that child-support is the feather that will break the camel's back (so to speak). And really it should not concern you, your son's needs should be considered long before his.
