Seeing your history with H laid out in black and white has really hit home with me. There are many similarities including broken engagement, multiple affairs, several job changes and moves all over the country, dissatisfaction with life, blaming me for his unhappiness, wanting me/not wanting me throughout our R, etc. Ouch!!! Really hurts to lay it all out.
I think you are handling things the right way. Your H has to be willing to work through his issues before the two of you could ever have a healthy R. Although my H and I are Piecing it has been very difficult because H is unwilling to really deal with his/our issues. Until that happens we will never move forward.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
