Originally Posted By: robx
But what is the motivation behind that action,


my motivation would have been this statement:

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W: "He had a life planned with me. Now its gone." (OK. I could have gone off on this one, but I didn't.) " He is devestated. He told me that he loves me and that he hopes I find peace. He said you are a lucky guy."


obvious now that it wasnt just an emotional affair.
sorry but i would have destroyed him if i heard that from my wife. you have more self control then me.