@robx Thanks for your response and checking back on my thread. I agree, I do see now that I have high expectations. I appreciate your input... I HAVE to lower my expectations and remove the pressure. I must.
I'm going to respond with the names of two Cs that have been recommended to me. (I've spoken with one and liked her. She's pro-marriage. The other was recommended to me by the WAW that I run with and she liked him a lot.) I'll keep it simple and only tell him their names. I have trouble knowing how little or how much to respond.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10