@robx Thanks for your response and checking back on my thread.
I agree, I do see now that I have high expectations. I appreciate your input... I HAVE to lower my expectations and remove the pressure. I must.

I'm going to respond with the names of two Cs that have been recommended to me. (I've spoken with one and liked her. She's pro-marriage. The other was recommended to me by the WAW that I run with and she liked him a lot.) I'll keep it simple and only tell him their names. I have trouble knowing how little or how much to respond.


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10