Thanks Hope for the input.

I don't know if she's testing me. Could be. But wouldn't she have thrown me at least minimal encouragement - "I still not don't know what I want, but maybe D is not the only option". Or at least a willingness to see a C or retro?

I DO want my M to work out. But my hope in that is dwindling.

I agree that I may not have a choice about us being under the same roof. But, I think I need to pull back and ramp my GAL-ng way up. Took my wedding band off. Not to hurt her, but to abide by her stmt that we aren't in a MR.

If I'm wrong, let me have it. My skin is thick and I listen very well.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
Current