Previously on Knots Landing,,,,actualy from another well read thread:

"I'll say it since none of the other women was willing to admit it.....women are vengeful. Payback, whether we initiate it or not, is almost always viewed with relish."

This was a response from a poster to my question on whether revenge (on OP or WAS) was a gender thing.

Personally, I am at a point now where I wish my XW no harm at all. Quite the contary...ok., my ego gets a little inflated when I receive complimentary e-mails from her or I sense that she misses me or that my Xstepdaughters call. That is about it, I really could not care less about her old boyfriend (Pedro / picture courtesy of Kerry) or new boyfriend or future ones.

Everything is going well on the NGF front we see each other on a regular basis and I / We have decided to seriously reduce the time I spend with her kids. So far seems to be working very well. Last night we decided to watch a movie together and honestly it was nice to be sans enfants. I can't remember the last time that happened.