The farm was so fun! We both loved it. The weather was beautiful and baby had a blast.

On our way up there at 10 exh sent a text:

"Want to come asap to see baby. I have something to do at 4."

Me: Ok, We are on our way to barn, text when we get back.
Exh: What! See! I never get to see her.

I started to defend myself but stopped. I took a breath and remembered I was not in the wrong. His visit time wasn't till 3 anyway and we had plans. I had planned on being home by 3.

On our way home he sent another and I said we would be home at 3. He came over for 30 minutes but barely spoke to me. He even did a few of those really deep breaths like people do when they want others to know they are not happy.

I realized he really lived in denial land thinking once he got his license back he would just swoop in and pick her up. Wow. He never texts multiple times anymore. Just what he needs to which is probably normal.

Going to be a decent weekend I hope. We have a bday party this afternoon.

Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!