@Esox--I do agree he wouldn't tell me the truth about OW.


H responded to my email saying that regardless of where C takes us, we need to learn to communicate for the sake of the kids. He totally blew off where I put that I want to work on bringing our family back together and work on a better future as partners. He's such an a$$. Just wants to communicate for the kids' sake and nothing more.

Any suggestions on what to reply or even how to calmly deal with this for myself?

I'm thinking of giving him an explanation of why I don't like the C he wants and list the two I was recommended. He asked me to let him know who I have in mind for the session.


M40, H39
M17 T20
D13, S12
H moved out 05/09
D filed 1/10