I had the same thing happen. I think the WAS thinking processes are different than the LBS, some (maybe most) seem to have a sense of entitlement that can make joint finances a problem.
How do you feel about your W not moving out? I've seen divorces happen quickly, but often they can take a year or 2 also. Just getting court dates can take months sometimes. This may be a longer process than you would imagine. Mine is going to be about 18 months start to finish, if we don't have another delay (the judge asked for a continuance already). If she's still carrying on the A, I think living with her will be extremely difficult, at least that was my experience.
I'm glad you're going out today. New clothes sound good too.
