Honey, the reason why I say her silly friend is this. This guy in one breath tells her she would be better off leaving me, in the next take a step back. The next breath "I can hook you up, then but you guys can work it out. Then he says from what he can see I'm a nice guy. She is confused by this guy.
I started my operation get her back this morning. I didn't really intend to do this. She came in the room and bent over to get some cloths well..... she turned around to catch me checking her out. So I think she did it again on purpose. When she came out of the bathroom, I told her she was looking nice today, not to say you don't look nice every other day. After I get out of the shower, I hear her yelling through the door. She forgot her rings. She rarely if ever forget to put her rings on. So I let her in and told her she should have just came in. She then replied that I always lock the door. I told her not anymore.
Later after she left, she called back to ask for a recipe. I volunteered to make her something for the pitch in so she doesn't have to do it when she gets home from her second gig.
I wonder if the ring thing was in reaction to me checking out her but? Or just what was it. I don't want to lay it on too thick but I will continue this. When I told her she was looking good, she said thanks but in a low voice as if she didn't believe me.
I also hear what you say about not doing something because the book said so. I'm torn right now with the flower thing. As I said earlier, I detected a hint of dissapointment in her voice when she found out the flowers she got was from her vendor.
I'm still thinking about the chase thing too. If her reasoning is he doesn't want me, then I may have to chase a little bit.
Another bit of detail. The other night, she was going to meet her friend for a drink. She came down with a tight top the teeny boppers wear. She shook it up and asked me what I thought. At that time I was like why would you wear that. Looking back I should have shown her it was a turn on. She hasn't worn it since. I think this was done to make me jealous and to gauge me reaction.
I will say that her breasts are a big thing with her but not me. I'm a leg and thigh guy. She had a little procedure on one of them and it left a small scar. She told me that I never touch her breast because of that. This just came out from 5 or more years ago. If I had known. The last time we were intimate, she took my hands up there. I never knew, she never told me. In fact, she was telling me what she wanted me to do. She took control like I've been begging her to for years.