There are many stories on here of marriages coming back from the edge. Good old Jack here has traveled that path. Remember though, people are not lead to a relationship (well occasionally, but that is usually for negative intentions of the leader). People make the choice to get into a relationship. Did you lead your wife to a relationship when you first started dating? Probably not...more likely she made the choice to get into a relationship with you for who you were. So by DB'ing you clean up what you have become and in the process become the better choice.
She may notice...she may not. In the end you become a better person regardless of the choice she makes!
Make sense?
I will get back to you on the list later....not to bash you, but I think she had about 50% constructive comments for you. That is pretty regular by the way with the other 50% being rubbish.
