I forgot to say that H's email to me last night also said have an enjoyable night (The kids had told him we were going to my brother's 40th)
Today I spent the day with my brother, his wife and kids. They are so gorgeous. It was fun and it distracted me from H's birthday.
My kids came home after going out to lunch with H and then spending the day together and finally having pizza for dinner. They said H was now about to study and it was after 8pm when they returned. So where is OW on H's birthday? Maybe they have something on tomorrow?
I have thought about the financial stuff and I will wait for at least 48 hours before I respond. I think I will keep communicating with him as before and see what eventuates.
As you say Rabbit at least he has kept communications positive and hasn't spat the dummy. I have to acknowledge that because it is a first.
