You are human for gods sake and this is not fair to you or her. Wow, where did that come from?? hehe
I don't know, but I like hearing it from you.
As PDT said in your thread, it's often easier to give this advice to others than it is to take it ourselves.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement