Dont get too down, ok he might not have wanted to spend his birthday with you YET! but on the bright side he spent it with the kids, so even though initally he said no he put some thought into that the kids wanted to see him!
Also he didnt turn into Teddy Throwing Boy as Nell and I fondly refer to our H's he continued to keep it civil and pleasant.
As for the finances if you have put forward proposals twice which he hasnt actioned whats the betting he's just throwing a spanner in again, and solicitor is his bluff, I agree with your brother make him do it through the solicitor, (why should you put energy into it again) he might be a good man under neath his MLC/A/OW but he has other people pulling his chain that you need to protect yourself and the kids from, a good solicitor will make sure you are probably covered for all eventualities.
Last edited by Lost Rabbit; 10/24/0909:28 AM.
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