I agree with dburt. It is her choice. And if she is going to come there and then leave halfway through because she isn't "comfortable" being there. Then let her. Your feeling are getting put through a blender! She needs to sleep in the spare room until she feels confident enough that she wants to come sleep with you and cuddle with you and enjoy it and want more, not feel uncomfortable halfway through! How fair is that! I would be notifying her immediately that you appreciate the effort she is making but until she is whole heartedly sure of what she wants then she needs to sleep in another room. You are human for gods sake and this is not fair to you or her. Wow, where did that come from?? hehe
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14
