my W doesn't regret her affair

[ClingingToHope]

Of course it's also possible she was crying because she decided we're done for good and she's so dreading telling me. Last year when she told me she was leaving me, she was strong as could be. No crying, no emotion, just facts. If that's where she's at, she's handling it different this time.

Could be good or bad. Try not to put many emotional eggs into this basket. I remember the last R talk we had -- perhaps the last ever before we D -- and I got the "I never loved you" statement again and she choked up a bit because I was "forcing" her to say it again.