So does this mean that all you 'nice guy' types around here that have always been that way naturally have decided to do the opposite now because your w's couldn't appreciate it? That sounds pretty sad to me. No one ever said be a doormat, but just because your w's didn't appreciate the nice way they were treated doesn't mean there aren't plenty of other women in this world that would appreciate it because they never had it.
You see, every woman will see you differently based on her own experiences in the past.
I'm just saying......please don't get rid of those nice guy traits. There are so few men left in the world that are even kind, let alone genuinely nice.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!