ME the guy who has a hard time letting go if the OM. Me the guy that keeps taking steps backwards by bringing up R talk too soon. WOULD NOT DO THAT....YES I agree that if your wife wanted to do what was right (at least in our minds)she should but she should want to do this on her own...... That is not for you to decide for her.
your buddy Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know