My C and I have talked about doing letters to OW1 and OW2 (and sister)......but not to STBXH. Maybe I should add him to the list.
I am feeling much better since I told him I needed space..... I have spoken to him in almost 3 weeks, and during that time I only e-mailed once to tell him I received a notice that the boat insurance is past due. He replied that he had e-mailed our agent and that was the whole extent of it. I have gone completely dark and plan to stay that way.
I am going out to a club tomorrow night where the band will be doing 70's music. It looks like anywhere from 5-10 or more of us will be there. AND, I have a guy I've been e-mailing with from match.com that may stop by too. So, I am looking forward to having some fun!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd