I think closure is a good idea if H agrees there is so much that was never said also good that you take your time to sift thru it all and let things settle rushing into anything is never good writing is also another way to get it out not sending it
I am dancin tomorrow and went last night suddenely having fun appears to be top on my list as well peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow