Originally Posted By: JTJ
Gima,

do you think she is projecting a little. You don't care versus. I don't care enough about me. How have you supported her care taking in the past. Does she Ned you to stand up for her because she can't. How well does she take care of herself? I think you need to take the kids and go away for a long weekend. No contact.


Honestly, I think she checked out a long time ago. It's just not there.

I have done all the Nice Guy behaviors. I never forgot any major occasion (anniversaries, burthdays). You know the drill.

Deep down, she may be unhappy about her life and sees me as the source of all that unhappiness.

I don't think she wants me to do anything for her. And, yes, she takes care of herself. Readily admits she is vain.

I will probably plan a trip with the kids and me.


Me 43, S11, D7
M13
Bomb 4/20/09
Current