Hey Puppy et al - hope everyone is having a good week. Well, after talking to my counselor last week. I took a stab at expressing a need. I asked my H if he would tell me before he called the friend (which rarely happens and now really only has to do with him trying to get our treadmill back that we let her borrow) instead of filling me in after the phone call. It just feels better to me.
Well he interpreted that as having to ask for my permission to call. Which, of course, is not what I was saying at all. Not sure if he got it through his thick head or not.
Just to make things interesting. His bookkeeper's ex-boyfriend somehow found out where we live and paid us a visit last Friday night. He's concerned about the bookkeeper's new boyfriend. He said he did some checking around and found out that the new boyfriend has 12 felony convictions (not true - it's his son who has the same name). My H has taken care of the situation - he basically told him he needs to let go and walk away and leave my H out of it. My H has asked that he not call, show up at our house or at our business. I'm so ready to be done with drama - I'm definitely not the kind of person who enjoys drama in her life!!!
I guess all the stress from the last 7 months is catching up with me. In addition to my gums wearing away. I thought I had TMJ this past weekend. Me - who's never had a cavity in her life now has a fractured tooth! Probably from grinding my teeth at night. Getting the tooth removed Monday morning.
My H and are trudging along(maybe not the best choice of words). Just taking it one day at a time. Maybe one day he'll see how the positive changes I'm making are benefiting him and our sons! (that one still kills me).
My H is at the lake this weekend winterizing the boat. I'm going to enjoy some quality me time!
