"I am taking steps now to move on, if things are meant to be then something will happen, if not I have a plan."
That, oddly enough, is the ONLY thing that MIGHT possibly bring her back. I know, it doesn't make sense to we non-aliens, but that's the way this stuff works. The exact opposite of what we THINK will work, is the ONLY thing that MIGHT, and the thing that we are CONVINCED will work, are absolutely, positively guaranteed to fail, without question.
You're making headway, my friend! You've accomplished the first step, in accepting that you are powerless, except in controlling how you react to her actions and words!
