Went to dinner tonight and was having a good time until..........

One thing W has been doing is going to another city to do personal interest courses and then coming home late at night (3:00 AM). She went to one a couple of weeks ago and according to the evidence that I uncovered, she was at OM's place until very late afterward. At any rate, she has been doing one of these courses on average about every two weeks for the last three months and I have come to hate it.

Anyhoo, tonight, she mentions that she has another one next Friday night and starts complaining about how it sucks that they don't start them sooner so she doesn't have to get home so late. I really had to bite my tongue and not launch into her that maybe she wouldn't get home so late if she didn't stop and sleep with OM on the way home. I am running out of energy with this, I don't see how I can keep this up. I have been hoping she stays at home so that she can see changes but I am exhausted and am starting to wish she would just leave.

I think she is delusional. Two nights ago when I confronted her about A, I told her that I knew where she was two weeks ago after her course (based on email evidence)and still she starts talking about that tonight like it was just a long trip home from the course that she will have to deal with again next week!

-HBH


Me:41
W: 35
Married: 6
Together: 15
Bomb: 08/09
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