@SmileysPerson,

Unfortunately, being in an R with someone who is emotionally unavailable has a negative utile value, and the situation itself is inherently unstable, so... wink

Last night in a big discussion, Mrs. T. refused to attend further Retro sessions or anything else which similarly pressured her into working on the R.

I calmly responded by saying that we should then begin the process of initiating D.

Today I called a mediator. I also finalized a deal which get's me out of the home office and back into a company office as of Monday.

Mrs. T isn't happy about the sitch - accusing me of rushing into a D, etc.


Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
Walking away from a bad situation.

My Sitch

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