So what is your suggestion? What course of action do I take? Right now I am worried about OW again because he stopped the snuggling and S and stuff...his confidence is back..he no longer "needs or wants" me! I NEVER talk about R...not anymore. Not worth my time or frustration..right now it is all about me and my children and providing the kind of life that I wanted for them! Not this dysfunctioal BC that my H is creating along with all of his baggage that he is putting onto our children.