She can't do this without you and you don't need to point it out. It will only make her more determined to do exactly that.
I know its just hard to resist bringing it up to her. The other thing is if she is really done with me why is she comparing my trip with hers? It doesn't make sense to me at all. I mean wouldn't she not care at all and just blow me off? I don't know that part makes me think she is still attached to me. Well going to go see my IC tonight after work. I haven't talked with him for 2 weeks. I think I'm doing ok and a lot has happened in the past 2 weeks. Some good and some bad.
Me:27 W:24 S:2 D:9 months M:3 years Together for 8 years Bombed : 6/11/09 Moved out: 6/27/09 Found out about her affair 9/7/09 (she started her's at 6/25/09) Begged n plead 7/25/09 started DB 8/17/09