Believe me, I never wanted to have to go through with this.
Her behavior is what forced me to proceed. It wasn't due to revenge. I couldn't imagine not having my son around. That would be devastating.
The decisions I am making concerning myself and my son are under the belief she is not coming back. If she overcomes this, that's wonderful. I am willing to forgive.
If she doesn't, well, I would hate see what would happen to her. With basically no family to support her, it could get ugly.
That's the difficult part. She knows that we will always be there. But, I believe her pride will be what will hold her back.