You already know her buttons - are they manly aggression or emotional?
Do you now act manly and save your balls, or do you act progressively and save your ?
Are boundaries the priority or is communication the priority?
You now need to choose how you will react.
I am no expert - puppy and coach are by far my superiors in all aspects. i do not mean this as megre praise simply look at their posts
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.