Coach and PPT, thanks. Both your comments were what I needed. I will have a couple for you tonight! I am going to make sure my partner in crime at dinenr does NOT have any. We aren't going to mess up his plan. He has worked to hard for that.
The thing is, I still want this marriage. We had a sermon a couple of weeks ago (W should have listend) where we discussed doing the RIGHT thing even when others may think you are absolutely nuts. I am convinced the right thing is to fight for the marriage. My parents think I am nuts. Many of my friends think I am nuts. My in laws probably think I am nuts.
I will be traveling all of next week and can take some time to reread posts and reread DB.
PPT and Coach, if I want to keep trying, what should the next move be? Can I slow this down without going bankrupt with L fees? How can I retract statements to W about going to OMs W without looking weak? Or should I just go dark? What do I do about the info that I have that my attorney now has on OM? I know he won't use it unless I say to, but W knows I have something and she is PI$$sed about it. I think she might want to pull a Bobbitt on me. just kidding on that one.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present
