What I'm learning is that there is nothing the LBS spouse can do to lift the fog. It has to happen on its own and in many cases it doesn't happen until after the D.
That's likely what will happen to me. It took me five months to get it. In a way we live in our own fog. Mine is finally lifting.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
