[quote=mishka422][quote]who has never cheated on her, who has quit drinking, is very involved with his children, who is home almost every night, who does nice things for her, who provides a steady income, and who has had a PMA for the last 6 months of the most difficult challenge of his life, then I cannot (nor can anyone else) "win" her back, whatever that means. And damm!t, I'm tired of trying.
Greek had great advise. And the comments about "W in the Fog" are pretty dead on. I am in a similar spot as you. I didnt believe my W or any WAS could ever see through their fog but here is an example that just hit home for me today.
Friends are going through D and it has turned ugly. Husband retaining a top lawyer in D field. His W thought mediation was the path that was going to be traveled. (here is the fog lifting) My W saw what was happening in their "D". Called me out of the blue to talk about what was happening there. Wanted to make sure I wasnt going to through down the same way. Wants us to go to mediation when we have the money to do so. Only wants the best for me etc etc.
Protect yourself and you can still be the honorable man you are. I have read your sitch since I got on this board. I am sorry for where you are and wish you the best.
