I tried to let it go and did not see any results until I took a firm stand, stated and enforced boundaries.

As a woman I think it's even more important for men to be strong and confident. When my BF decided he wanted to come back home I was listening to his pathetic sounding messages and comparing them to the confident assured messages from other men. Believe me, pathetic is SO not attractive.

Be the strong, confident man who demands respect -- that's the better man.

Listen to Coach and Puppy, they are right on the money.

Last edited by pearlharbr; 10/23/09 08:51 PM.
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