I wish it could be so easy. She has been seeing a MC for a month now trying to work out her feelings. Other guy even has his kids calling her. She is checking out how divorce would affect our children and how quickly she can take them and leave me for him. MC is telling her not to make fast decision without completely thinking it through. If there is a chance she will come back around to me, I want to take it. She's not one to take ultimatums well, she'll bolt immediately.

I'm still reeling from this happening at all. We have been so happy, so good for each other, until this guy came on the scene. She says there is no way she can give up having contact with him.