Yes, the goal of this site is to save our marriages.

But unfortunately not everyone gets to do that for various reasons.

We also get to become much better people, and learn how to deal with life in a much more positive way.

There is nothing we can do to make our WAS come home again, they are free willed adults who can make their own choices. Sometimes their choices do not include us.

I am sorry if I upset you, but you do get sucked into his drama, it is very blatent from your posts here. Your moods are based on how your interaction was with him.

And if it makes you feel any better, we all did this and we all acted that way in the begining.

(((hugs)))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.