Thanks Deb,

Oh I know baby steps, baby steps, no expectations. He's coming around, but I can't be sure if he's going to bolt, to I have to sit very still now.

When I was there, with H last night. It came to me that OW has no idea that H was with me and I kind of felt bad for her, but then realized that's the difference between her and me I have morals and values. I also like to think I know when I'm crossing the line. I'm NOT crossing the line, he's my H. He's my H and she IS crossing the line.

Cathy