She is now trying to decide which of us she is going to go with.
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She is feeling pressured to make a decision (not by me).
This OM is acting all clingy and needy. You will help her decide by deciding for her - this is strong, confident and attractive. Take control and lead.
"Wife, I understand you are having trouble deciding about who to choose as your man. I have decided that I won't share my wife with another man. So if you don't stop contact with him immediately then I will move your belongings into the garage and you have until _______ to be out of the house."
That's your position, she can wail and cry all she wants. You took back control because you won't be victimised by her bad behavior.
So her choices are a needy, clingy, slimy OM. Or a strong, confident and honorable man who took a stand for his family. You can handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
