My wife of 14 years is involved in an EA with a high school sweetheart from 20 years ago who lives 500 miles away. She hasn't seen this guy since they broke up but has been talking & texting for about 4 months. She is now trying to decide which of us she is going to go with. We have 2 children (12 & 7) who know nothing of it. She is feeling pressured to make a decision (not by me). I can't get her to stop contacting him. I just learned of this site and the DR book today. I have it but I am afraid I am running out of time. Anyone have any advice as to how I can get something going fast to save my family? Thanks!