W can't break EA - not sure how to handle it

[Kettricken]

Well, she can feel a little guilty for her choices. Yes, OM absolutely brought it on himself. But she was a player in that emotional game too. The only way to avoid feeling the kind of guilt she's feeling right now (which IS a consequence of her past actions) is not to get emotionally involved with Man Two when she's married to Man One. There is just no way *someone* doesn't get hurt there, and it's a good lesson for her to learn and remember.

Yes. But I think she knows that without me telling her.

Then why are you telling her, "Don't feel guilty?" If it was clearly "Don't feel guilty about sticking to your decision to break it off with him", that's one thing. Otherwise ....

Edit: sorry, read more carefully, sounds like that was the context. Never mind.