It's definitely worth thinking about, Cathy.

It's SUCH a delicate dance...unique to each couple....

When is the time to say "CHOOSE!" because you CANNOT have me if SHE is still in the picture!?

Some here have already done so...definitely shakes things up!

But what are the risks? Are they acceptable? Are YOU at the point where you're ready to live with any possible outcome to such an ultimatum?

Shiny