In MLC, its about letting your Ex learn what he has to learn, no matter how hard it is to watch from the sidelines, no matter how much it may hurt you or the kids. Its about unconditional love.
Its about taking this time to focus on you and making you the best that you can be. That is often the only way to survive a spouse's MLC-don't get swept up in their struggle, b/c you can't fix anything for them..
If/when they get through what they have to get through, you will be a whole, functioning, best-you that you can be. They will see what they missed and hopefully will come to the conclusion that YOU is what they want in their life afterall! And then the real hard work begins! :-))
M44 H46 T21 Married 16y D14 D12 Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09 Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09 Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce Divorce final 6/30/10.
