Respectful..yes - very remorseful. So much so she cannot understand how I can every forgive her. Yes everything is stopped - as far as I know. Very concerned about the children.
Are you sure this is a person that you can not be with right now?
Originally Posted By: wanttobebetter
She has told me her only concerns right now are her head (she is on the meds and in therapy) and the kids.
Given what she has been through, it sounds like quite a bit to deal with. Should she prioritize your relationship above her own head and the children? Is asking her to do that the loving thing to do? I know it is hard, but I think she needs time to wind down a bit.
