Sorry, I missed the lit the candle "for you" part. I thought it said simply "he lit a candle.

I think cc'ing the email was good.

If you leave, OK, that is good. This other stuff, aside from the comedic value, you probably want to avoid. Being vindictive does nothing to make the world a better place. Burning bridges only pollutes the water in the river below.

Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted