Wish I could take credit for it, but it was not mine. Mach1 maybe.

Another favorite of mine is:

"One moment of patience may ward off great disaster.
One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life."
- Chinese Proverb

You listening, P17? ;-)

Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed