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He didn't leave you for someone better. A better person does not get in the middle of someone elses marital problems, that is something that a broken person does. So two broken people clung to each other rather than face their own failings. Is that better, no.


Very well said and I thank you for it. It seems Donna and I have a lot of the same issues with the gf in our xh's lives and their impact on our kids. I knew all of this somewhere in my head, but it was good to see it spelled out by an outside party.

Last edited by mishka422; 10/23/09 07:01 PM.

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!