Who cares about the candle...maybe he smelled up the bathroom at the cathedral and was trying to clear the air.
I wish it didn't get to me, but his cluelessness, (I'm supposing), boggles my mind. Did he think I would be touched by his gesture? Yeah, I'm one lucky lady. Having your H light a candle for you in Paris is almost as good as being in Paris.
It was the least he could do...literally.
Brilliance on cc'ing him. Brilliance. Maybe you should burn something for him.. "Dear H...I was thinking of you also, I lit your belongings on fire." lol J/K!