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"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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You are such a sweetie and a blessing for all of us here. I wanted to tell you thank you for talking about Reiki. I have had a massage lady that has done that for me a few times and I could actually feel the "heat' of my energy! I had asked if she had put a heating pad on the blanket and she said nope, that is all you. smile

I am glad you are able to put such a happy spin on things. I haven't been doing too bad with it but hit some bumps here and there. But venting can be good to, letting the negative energy go...bye, bye.

I hope everything turns out well for you. Plenty of hugs.

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...love.. hugs.. and cuddles to all...

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Alright.. I can't sleep. Tried it.. didn't work. Read more. Didn't work. Drank warm milk. Didn't work. Tried posting to folks. Hope it wasn't too screwy.

Most Sundays I zip through Open Houses in town, something I've been doing for over a year to get a feel for the market. Now that my house is listed, I perceive the condos and houses differently. One in particular caught my eye.. well.. actually, two.. both more than I'd want to spend.

My mind kept thinking about this one place..

OH CRAP... sheesh... you think I'd learn.

I'm up and my mind is all busy because I had some wine Saturday night. This is my delicate mental balance. Take the meds, do good things in life.. things are great. Take the meds, drink the wine... Gypsy gets the insidious fallout in some way shape of form the following day.

Oh how I hate it when I do it to myself.

In the words of the great Gilda Radner ....

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The less I focus on the divorce, the more I live my life.

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Hey Gyps...you need to focus on other things.....GAL remember. that still applies. You will be amazed how many other things there are when you get someone special to share some time with. Get out there...go dancing....let yourself be spoiled a bit! It's the best therapy....you'll see.

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Actually, I've finally realized I need to get a job. With some extra income, along with the alimony, I won't be living on the financial edge.

Ohhhh.. yikes.. I've been out of the workforce for 20 years. The economy sucks so much, I don't have to worry about being 'picky'.

Get out there, Kathleen!

And thanks, Giovanni, for always being you.

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Hey there Ms. Gypsy,

Sometimes tough to turn off the mind to get some good sleep, no matter what you do, especially when you're making big financial decisions.

Even in this economy, I have no doubt that you'll find employment successfully. With your writing skills, interest in the theater (oops, we know how well that pays!), and charm, there are bound to be opportunities. The more people you're exposed to, the better, right?


"Get out there, Kathleen!"

Take Care,

Sunny


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Hey, you,,,
Go to some local newspapers with writing samples. Ask 'em if they've got a surviving divorce column. Look for advertising agencies or advertising departments. You'd be great at writing, editing, proofing copy.

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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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And thanks, Giovanni, for always being you.

Hey! Hope that was not sarcasm....

Once we get busy and involve our minds with other concerns, you will feel better. You are doing great Gyps....

Have a wonderful weekend Zingara!

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