Why? Is your parenting skills going to suffer because she is around? If so...you better figure out why you let that crap happen. If not? STFU and keep on being a great dad.
God Frank...SHE doesn't affect your life, you LET her affect your life.
Not because she affects MY life, because SHE affect D14's Life. D14 has been so much calmer this week than she has been in a long time. The previous 2 weeks D14 has been a wreck. Now she's sleeping at night, doing her homework on time and much happier.