Well you know after all of the back and forth of the last couple of weeks with him, I needed to say it, didn't I? You're right though I'm done with the R talks for awhile. I feel LIKE I can relax and just keep on keeping on.
The other good thing was that my son went to bed on his own, without a fight. And you know why, because H was there and H won't put up with his games. Now me on the other hand, I DO and son knows this...argghhh and last night it finally dawned on me. This was another huge problem with H, he said just put him to bed, but no I had to baby son and H would get mad, it was a viscious, visciuos circle--I can't even go there right not, it was too ugly. I'm going to start using dbing on my son to get him into bed without a struggle! I'm tired of it and if H does comes back and I haven't gained this control it WOULD lead to problems again.
